Before you request
There is no rush. This first stage is about grounding yourself and choosing your people before anything lands on the doormat.
Every tick here is you looking after yourself. That already matters.
A trauma informed guide
Four gentle stages. Tick things off as you go, your progress saves on your own device, so you can close the tab and come back whenever you're ready.
There is no rush. This first stage is about grounding yourself and choosing your people before anything lands on the doormat.
Every tick here is you looking after yourself. That already matters.
A subject access request is a legal right. You don't have to explain why. I'll help you word it if you want a hand.
You are allowed to ask. You are allowed to take your time.
You do not have to open it the day it arrives. You do not have to open it alone. You get to decide.
Slow is okay. Closing the folder is okay. Coming back tomorrow is okay.
The pages are one part of the story. The rest is what we do with the feelings they leave behind, together, over time.
There is no finish line here. Kindness to yourself is the whole point.
Whatever stage you're on, message me. There's no pressure and no cost, just a real person who's read their own file too.
Message me in confidence